Back to the Doctor

Alex's size 3 diaper!!

Daddy with his wet clothes!!

We ventured back to the Dr's office so that Alex could be weighed again. He managed to gain 7 oz in two days. Pretty impressive if you ask me. That means he's now back to his birth weight and in the 50th percentile for his age and weight. He is also is looking less jaundiced. So, obviously this means Alex is eating just fine now. He's on a schedule of eating every 2-3 hours now, but I'm struggling to keep up with him. Luckily I had frozen some milk earlier, so we are getting by. I'm hoping my body will kick in and keep up soon!!

The nurse took Alex's diaper off to weigh him, but she quickly covered him back up because she thought he was going to pee. As she passed him back to Adam, Alex let loose and peed all over Adam. He had it on his shirt and shorts, including his crotch. We had a good laugh!! Adam said he'd never had anyone else pee his pants for him!!! Of course, I didn't bring the diaper bag in because we were only running in to get weighed. They had a size 3 diaper that I put on Alex until we made it back down to the car. Needless to say, I learned my lesson early in motherhood that you can never go anywhere without the diaper bag!!

We were running to Virden after the Dr's visit, so we had to make an impromptu stop at Old Navy so Adam could buy some clean and dry clothes. I had a $25 gift card, so that worked out well!! Grandma Kershaw showed Alex off to all her co-workers and then we went and hung out at Grandma and Grandpa's for a little while. I think our little man is getting a little spoiled by being held all the time. He seems to get a bit fussy when he has to sit too long by himself. We're going to need to get over that really quick. Alex also really loves his pacifier, but he can't always manage to keep it in his mouth.

Yesterday, Alex also made a visit to both Mom and Dad's work. He's got to meet so many people, and loves being held by everyone (as I mentioned earlier!) I think we are going to take it easy and chill at home all weekend. All this running around is catching up to me. I'm pretty tired. Waiting for Alex to eat here in about 20 minutes and then it's off to bed!!

First Parental Scare

So, every parent overreacts from time to time, especially new parents. Luckily for us part was overreaction, but partly not. Alex has been struggling to latch on to eat lately, if he does latch he eats like a champ. Last night I had to wake him up after sleeping 5 hours because I know he shouldn't go that long without eating. We tried to eat a 3 am, did a little but not to my satisfaction. He fell asleep for a bit and we tried again. This process went on until 6 am when I got so frustrated I had to hand him to Adam and just walk away. I went and pumped and then laid down and cried myself to sleep. Adam woke me up at 8 am because he thought it looked like Alex had some blood in his urine. We immediately called the Dr. and they told us to come in at 9:30. I then felt like a horrible Mom for getting so frustrated with him.

We went to the Dr. and saw the nurse practitioner, Tracy. We liked her just as much as Dr. Veronica!! Anyway, she said it wasn't blood in his urine but the skin moving around and healing from his circumcision. His umbilical cord is about to come off, and that had also rubbed on the inside of his diaper. She did say his was jaundiced and that she wanted to run a blood test on him. And there was concern that he wasn't getting enough to eat because he had lost 2 oz and was down to 8 lbs. He also has a blocked tear duct, so his eye is all yucky.

We went back to Memorial and got his blood drawn, but his billy rubin level was fine. We now have to bottle feed Alex to make sure he is getting enough to eat. We have him eating every 2 1/2 hours and he is eating like a champ!! I'm pumping, and that's going well. We go back on Friday to get him weighed again to make sure he is gaining weight. Once we get him back on a better eating schedule, we'll try to incorporate actual breastfeeding back into the mix. Apparently jaundiced babies tend to sleep more and eat less, so hopefully we can get things back in order! While we were at the hospital we got to see the nurse who was with us the day we delivered Alex. We love Robin!! She is soooo awesome!!

So, even though there was no blood in his urine I'm very glad we took him to the Dr. I kept saying I didn't think he was eating enough and everyone told me to let him sleep and he'd eat when he was ready. I've learned that Mom's really do have a natural instinct and I'm glad I followed it!!

Molly's Big 3-0

Well, today is Molly's 30th birthday, so I'm back on the blog to publish a post about the day. The morning began with the continuation of my hunt to rid the yard and house of snakes. Today, Briggs warned me of another snake in the yard, so I went out there and killed it with a hoe. I'm somewhat relieved because it is the size of the first snake that I saw a few weeks ago. Hopefully, that means that the snakes are all gone. In any case, we've got an exterminator coming out on Thursday to double check the attic and crawlspace. Having them in the yard is one thing, but when you kill a snake crawling out of the soffiting, that's something else entirely. I think they're all gone, but I want a professional to reassure me of that fact.

The past week has simply flown by. Molly and I celebrated Alex's one week birthday with his first walk last night. Briggs came along, too. He's done very well adjusting to the new little person in the house. Besides the occasional lick, he's very good with Alex. He's even handled the idea of no longer being the only baby pretty well. (Some inappropriate personal licking and scratching, but otherwise he seems quite comfortable with the idea.)

As for Molly and I, we've just been trying to get into a routine. Alex is sleeping quite well. In fact, Molly even woke him up to eat last night because it had been six hours since he'd eaten. We've realized that the hospital's recommendations for feeding times simply don't fit every baby. As long as we don't try to force the feedings on him, he eats very well, and all of his other bodily functions are quite functional also.

Tom and Karen as well as Thomas, Amy, Gabbi, and Roman (Lil' Thomas) came over for birthday dinner tonight. We had a fabulous meal of fried chicken followed by angel food cake w/ strawberries for desert. There was a bit of a scare at one point as the porch swing broke with Tom, Roman, and Gabbi sitting on it. Thankfully, nobody was injured (besides a bit of a bruise on Gabbi's shoulder). At the end of the night, Thomas gave Molly a card that said he'd been praying for our family every morning since last July. The card included the finger rosary that he'd been using for his prayers each morning, and he told us to pass it along to someone else who needed prayers.

Of course, Molly and I were both touched by Thomas' thoughtfulness, and it is humbling to know that he is just one of many, many people that has prayed for our little miracle. Alex is the most amazing blessing we've ever received, and no amount of thanks could ever repay our parents, siblings, family, or friends for all of their prayers and support. To look into our son's eyes is to truly know the depth of God's love and blessings.

Because of those blessings, Molly and I will never be the same. Having Alex has changed our entire world for the better, and everything--from waking up in the morning to the taste of angel food cake--somehow seems a little different. I know that I speak for Molly when I say that Alex is the best birthday present either of us has ever laid eyes on.

Labor of Love

Alex ate so much better today. It's amazing how much difference a day can make. We were both really frustrated yesterday, but today has been a completely different story. I can definitely understand why so many women choose not to breastfeed. It's a true labor of love!! We've labored a lot to get Alex, so we're always up for another challenge! Not to mention how can you not completely do whatever this cute little face needs of you?!

First Bath at Home

On Thursday (June 4), Alex had his first bath at home. He didn't much care for it, but managed to survive. It will be better once he can actually be in some warm water. Hovering above the water isn't much fun. We'll just have to wait for his umbilical cord to fall off!!

Time is Flying!

So, time is flying around this house. I truly don't understand where the days are going, but they are moving quickly. Thursday night Alex slept much better, so we didn't spend a good chunk of the day in bed like the day before. We didn't have a choice because Alex had a follow-up appointment with Dr. Veronica. He weighed in at 8 lbs 2 oz , so he gained an ounce since leaving the hospital. All in all things checked out well, and we'll go back in 2 weeks for another follow-up.

After leaving the Dr's office we made our first official visit to Target!! YEAH!! Adam told Alex to get used to coming here, because Mommy could spend hours here. We weren't there to terribly long, but got what we needed. We made two other quick stops and then we were on our way home. Alex had his first bottle in the car, and managed just fine.

I've been having to pump quite a bit, as I truly have turned into a mass producer of milk!! I have so much that Alex is struggling to latch on and feed. It's been a bit frustrating, but we are working through it. We both just need practice. Adam has been such a great help, and there is without a doubt no way I could get through the breastfeeding process without him. He's such an awesome Daddy!

Last night after our busy day, Grandma and Grandpa Kershaw came and brought us dinner. They also brought along both Ma and Grandma Furness (Alex's Great-Grandma's), as well as Alex's Great-Great Aunt Pat. We had a nice visit, and of course they were all in love with our little man!

We made it through the night much better than the night before. Got a few little things done this morning and then Aaron, Liz, and Seth came over for a visit. I think Seth ended up liking Alex a bit more than he thought he would. We ended up all going to Steak-n-Shake for lunch. Somehow the whole town of Springfield showed up to eat though. We got our table stolen from us, and had a sub-par waitress! Alex managed to sleep through it all!

We came home, Alex ate and napped and Dad mowed the yard. Then we got ready for our first trip as a family to go to church!! Alex did wonderfully again! Everyone at church thought he was so cute. Fr. Kemme said he was beautiful, and you know you can't lie in church!!!

So, that brings us up to speed. We plan on giving Alex a bath in a bit, but are going to chill on the couch for a little bit. Briggs is even inside with us right now. He's done really well with Alex today. He's just really curious and want to lick him a lot. He'll eventually get it all figured out.

Hope this satisfies everyone's blog desire. I've had quite a few request for new pictures and updates, and for the most part I think you all just got a play by play of our last few days!! Thanks for thinking of us. All in all, we are doing great!!

We Made it Home!!

Sorry, but yesterday was so busy we didn't have time to update. We were released from the hospital around 12:30 yesterday, after Alex was given the A-OK by his Dr. He lost 6 oz, but as you know is normal for a newborn. We go back to visit Dr. Savage tomorrow to make sure he is gaining weight and has not become jaundiced. The little man is eating like crazy now that he's figured it out.

Nana and Papa came over and cooked us supper last night and made another meal that we will be eating shortly. Grandma and Grandpa are coming over tomorrow night to bring us supper. This not cooking thing could get really easy to get used to, but I know it won't last!!

Alex was up most of the night last night and that made for a very very tired Mom and Dad. We both took turns up with him, and ended up not getting out of bed until 11:30 today! We all got a nap in this afternoon after Alex was awake for about an hour. The plan is to give him a bath later on and try to wake him up for a little while, so that maybe he'll sleep a bit longer tonight. I know he's on his own schedule, but I'd like to help him get on a schedule that works for Mom and Dad too!

Briggs is still getting used to the idea of having someone new around the house. We've brought him in several times, but for short periods of time. He really just wants to lick his face, which I know how dogs communicate but that is not acceptable! I know over time he'll be fine with him, but we are definitely going through a transition stage right now.

Overall, things are going very well. I'm interested to see how our first outing will go tomorrow. We have a few things we need to do after we go to the pediatrician. Keep your fingers crossed that all goes well!!

As a side note. . . I think it's funny that I was so worried about getting the baby's room all finished and the little man hasn't even been in there for a split second!! Oh, well it's ready whenever he wants to go in there!!